Today, Braedon and I traveled to visit a Christian university.
Turns out ‘Christian’ is not enough to describe the faith, or lack there of, present in the student lives on campus.
Early in the tour, it was noted that freshman, well everyone, can have opposite sex visitors from 1p to 11pm on weekday, and 1pm to 1am on weekends. Quite inviting for raging hormones suddenly independent from parental supervision. Yet, the open door policy for freshmen was intended to bring parents comfort. If your student was any other level other than freshman, they could close the door with their opposite sex guests until 11p on weekdays or until 1am on weekends.
Yikes! The devil was prowling around our tour and apparently had won some ground on this ChristIan campus.
Braedon and I continued with our group of about 10 students with their parents. Our tour guide brought us into the library. I noted the lack of books. Odd.
Another parent noted the display of an LGBTQ flag with a social justice book display.
I was unaware until later Braedon also saw the rainbow.
This dad held church in the hallway of the library. Boldly, he asked our guide about the flag. Her response lit a fire in some bellies, including mine. She said, “we have a LGBTQ group here and they put up flags in different areas.” The man proclaimed Jesus’s finished work on the Cross and owned/blamed that we have become too comfortable with sin. He added he and his family would be leaving the tour. Finally, he exorted all parents present not to send their children to this not so Christian school.
Braedon leaned into my ear and told me he wanted to leave.
So we did.
Some of you may have done things differently: leapt on a chance to minister, hunted down the administration, or continued in the tour.
If you love Jesus and follow His teachings, you cannot be ok with sin. Homosexuality is a sin. Like any other sin, people are invited to repent and believe in Jesus.
I don’t know what will come of the students at this particular college. Braedon and I prayed for the administration and asked God’s hand to be upon the comings and goings of the students.
The wide road calls and captures many.
When we say yes to the narrow road, we also invite testing and hatred from those who waver, who wallow, who don’t want to offend.
I thank God we visited this college. I thanked God for the man who with great courage who stood for the Cross in an environment which was loosey-goosey.
How would Jesus have handled this leadership who have given sexual sin a place in the light and also placed sin behind closed doors hidden in the dark, unseen to the Resident Advisors.
My Spirit says after stating the truth and exposing all sin in His light, Jesus would have wept if they stayed in rebellion, in much the same way He did with the unbelieving Jews.
I am heavy-hearted for the many years of Christian complacency, not actively making and sending disciples of Christ into the world. In this complacency, His light has been hidden behind people’s comfort level, their tithing potential, and utter laziness of mature followers withholding their time to pour into new believers, the generation that is now administration of colleges as well as students at college.
Lord, we need You. Lord, help the mature who have failed to make disciples repent, for You are faithful to forgive. Lord, clear the narrow path, that we may know which is the Way and walk in it. Help us love all people made in Your image, but help us not be participants in allowing sin to flourish. We love You and praise Your holy Name, only the name by which we may he saved. Amen
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I welcome your continued prayers for God to lead Braedon where He knows he will belong. I am becoming acutely aware of the challenge we all face in remaining steadfast. If you need prayer, I am willing.
In Christ’s love
Julie
Praying with you that Braedon find the place God wants him to be. The word “Christian” has been so watered down. I thank God your son desires the Lord. Jesus said to pray “deliver us from evil”, not from situations or people. How Great that you heard someone take a stand for righteousness and walk out the door.
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Thank you so much dear Mary for this Godly wisdom and encouragement. Your words are His breath into a discouraged soul.
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I’ll never understand, other than we know according to the Word, that these “days and it’s issues” have been foretold. It is so discouraging to see public “Christian” places caving into the complacency rather than upholding standards. Sadly, we know that money can be the reasons why. I believe there are Christ followers feeling helpless based on decisions in their work places because of the power of greed and allowing non-Christian values dictating decisions. I was starting to see it in my educational career and there were things I just could no longer stand beside. Yes, love the dinner, hate the sin,…but don’t encourage the sin and open up a playing field for the devil’s desires! My son attended a very strict Christian college~College of the Ozark’s~in Branson, MO. It’s one of the top rated private colleges in the nation. Young people will be faced with many adult decisions that simply I have to pray God’s direction over them, but at least this college truly offered what it claimed. What a dicey world we live in! We need you Jesus!! God, we know there’s a place for Braedon! 💛💜🙏🏻
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Oh my daughter attended College of the Ozarks! What a wonderful school. My daughter worked in the restaurant there while studying to be a pediatric nurse. She loved attending there.
As a single parent, I was very grateful for Gods Blessing.
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That’s wonderful,Rhonda!
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That’s wonderful, Rhonda! I understand. It’s such an amazing place. Stay safe and blessed!
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I’m so sorry you and Brandon had this experience. It has long been an unwritten truth among Christian circles that Bible schools and Christian colleges are often a worse place to send a child than a regular college. Partly because Astor’s and Christians send their rebellious kids there thinking it will “straighten them out” and partly because of the complacency you spoke about, and even Satan’s theology masked as “open minded thinking”.
Karen Hogue 843-419-7343
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Sister, thank you for your encouragement. Braedon has two schools that appear upon our day long visits appear to be walking the faith they write about on their website. Did your cell change? Need to make sure I have the right one. Love, Julie
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Praising God for opening your eyes, for believing and speaking truth, and for courage to flee from evil.
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Thank you dear Kathy. I wanted to speak, but Lord assured me it wasn’t my turn. It was that father’s turn. Praise God!
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Oh Dear Julie! What an adventure! Glad your son listened to his heart and asked to leave. It was an exposure to the reality of our changing world! ( Dear Lord, thank you for keeping our senses keen to the scheming plot of the enemy). I am sad to hear that a Christian school is allowing this? The school administrators are not obeying Jesus and the truth! They are openly allowing sin. Sin brought out in the open, into the light, is still sin😫🥲.
Your week end adventure brings my mind to my job Julie. As a hospice nurse while in Franklin, TN, my company hired a male hospice nurse to our team December of 2020. He is great! Turns out he is married to one of our part time nurses. He is such a great guy, a wonderful nurse. He and I became good friends and started working together on week ends, an on call position, early Nov. of 2021. God spoke over me and told me He wanted to show (John) how to trust him, so I was open about my faith with John and prayed openly with John. John was brought to tears that God was touching his heart and John was over whelmed! One afternoon while talking with John on the phone, he told me that he was actually a girl who was undergoing a sex change!!!!! I couldn’t believe it!! I was shocked that I was deceived, But oddly enough, I still loved him like Jesus. Even though! I asked Jesus immediately, “what do I do with this news Lord”?
Later, Jesus introduced to me to a speaker from “Focus on the Family” through a sermon, This speaker had been a girl and wanted her whole life to be a boy, and even during a sex change God faithfully pursued her and won her heart, and she was welcomed back into the church as a girl! How wonderful!! But, now there is John… what do I do Lord? How do I lovingly approach him/her?? God also showed me that even though John wants to be a man, it is a sin for me to call him a guy, even though, I had met him and known him/her as a man! I did not/could not judge, but felt God wanted me to talk with John/Charity about his sin😞🥲! But how do I do that Lord?? I was so weak and failed. My brother passed a few weeks later in Dec, COVID happened mid January, I had decided in late November to buy a house and move away, so I was totally consumed with that…..so many excuses! So many excuses not to have a conversation about God with John, his sin, deceit, changing herself, not trusting Jesus!! Her name is Charity!! I failed. I moved away March 8, and my heart still sinks when I think of Charity. Married to a woman and they have a son!! Gulp!! I want so much to go back and talk to Charity!! I want to obey our Father! I ask myself: “was I only planting seeds of the Lord, now this couple prays to Jesus daily! they want to join a church! But they are deceiving😫🥹😕😞! Oh the weight of this on my heart! Julie, I will text you my new phone number, I had to change it due to too many spam calls and texts. I would really love to talk to you concerning this. Thank you dear Julie for emailing me your blog! Oh I most certainly miss you!!
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Oh dear Rhonda. Yes the devilis active and well but God is bigger and stronger. I look forward to getting your new number. Love, Julie
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Thank you,,May God use this post!
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An eye-opening tour indeed! God continues to walk with Braedon, as well as the rest of your family. When sin comes knocking, we know that we can always run to the Lord’s rock and refuge.
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Thank you Richard. Yup one more college to visit in person, so as not to be deceived by online marketing.
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