Endings: A Guest Post


Welcoming my new friend and a beautiful spirit, Janyre Tromp to this space in the blog world. She and I met on Twitter. Take heart, friends who grow weary of social media. God has plans for you, too. Both of us have shared when summer ends, we will have more time for our work we do from home.  Listen to Janyre’s heart here, and see if you can relate. More information about Janyre in her bio at the end:


We’re coming up to the end of August, and my kids will soon be joining the ranks of bleary-eyed students returning to school. Summer is ending, and I’m not sure how I feel.
I don’t like endings.

It’s dark.

I can’t quite see what’s coming next.

And my self-preservation kicks in screaming, “Run the other way, idiot!”
But as time ticks steadily down, it’s quite impossible to for us mere mortals sprint back up the time continuum. Unless you’re Dr. Who. And I, dear friends, am not Dr. Who.
There’s a fear, a stress that comes with change. Even good change. My husband switched jobs this summer. Stress. I’m contemplating pruning my commitments. Stress. My daughter is 11. That’s stressful in and of itself but she’s starting soccer for the first time ever. Mama stress.

But my good-stuff stress is nothing. I have a friend a few years older than me getting married for the first time in middle age. Super stress. Another friend completely an adoption from overseas. Mega-stress.

And then there’s the stuff that hits you like a train when you’re just trying to get through an ordinary day. Pop quizzes, broken legs, cancer diagnosis, car accidents,…you see why I don’t like the unknown?

But there is so much possibility in endings.

So much that could come next. Sure school brings early mornings, alarm clocks, and the end of summer. But it also brings routine and a few moments of quiet.

Every sidewalk end, every cliff you step up to leaves you open. The vistas are wide and filled with potentially amazing experiences. You see…

Beginnings can’t happen without an ending.

So in this season of change, I pray you will find peace. That you will see potential and and take it. That even as you mourn what is no longer you will celebrate what’s coming.

And that you will give yourself the grace of time to figure it all out.


Thank you for visiting! Here’s more about Janyre:

Janyre Tromp is a traditionally published author and book editor who has worked in the book industry for almost twenty years. She’s an involved member of Calvary Church (about 3000 members), Bible Study leader, wife, and mom of two kids and an eccentric Shetland Sheepdog. She lives life looking for beauty … even when it isn’t pretty. You can hang out with her on most social media platforms or over on her blog:


Have a wonderful remainder of your week, friends. I am hoping to sneak sniffs of salt air in between the rain storms while away. More next week when I return. Blessings, Julie




2 thoughts on “Endings: A Guest Post

  1. Pingback: Endings - Beautiful. Ugly. Me.

  2. Janyre:
    Your endings are always positive and optimistic. I especially liked: “I pray that you will see potential, and take it.” With your kind and supportive encouragement, I do.
    See you at the BREATHE Conference.

    Richard Havenga


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